Anonymous said: Hi! I wanted to thank you for your newbie FAQ, right now I'm doing lots of research before I decide if sugaring is really for me. Unfortunately I have another newbie question- I like to think I have an above average face and body but I'm a natural redhead with thin limp hair, obviously I want to be as beautiful as possible for future POTs & SDs but will they be put off if I invest in hair extensions?I know you can't speak for all SD's out there, but do the majority want a perfect natural beauty?
Hi sweets! I’m so happy you found it helpful, that’s what it’s there for! ;)
This is my take on extensions: if they’re quality and look natural, nobody is going to care. If you love it and it makes you comfortable, you should get them! Never go out of your way and alter your body for anyone else, be it a boyfriend, your sugar daddy or a friend tellin you your hair would look better in a bob. Seriously, as long as you’re happy with the way you look, you’re good to go! When you’re confident with the way you look, you will appear even more attractive to others.
Since this probably isn’t the answer you’re looking for, I’m going to say this: most SDs and POTs want a woman who is naturally beautiful. However, men are as a group terrible at spotting “natural” and “enhanced”. If you are attractive, work with instead of against your features, and don’t go overboard with your makeup and clothes, you should be fine. At the same time, if you want to be extravagant, you should! There’s no right or wrong, different men like different things and if you’re not his cup of tea then he’s not worth your time. Easy as that :)
If this doesn’t make sense, let me know and I’ll try to get it right. xx